I agree that communication is the most important ingredient in a relationship. It’s not just any kind of communication but preferably heart-to-heart sharing between two persons. I’m lucky that I spend a lot of time with him, just talking. Or rather gossiping. You won’t believe how much silly things we still do in our relationship. He always makes fun of my things and it makes me laugh. We always call each others funny nicknames too. Just as if we are still children. It really keeps us close together.

Real relationships take effort, time and commitment. Great relationships just don’t happen because two people love each other very much, great relationships happen because not only do two people love each other very much, they also value one another and are willing to make an investment of time into the relationship, day after day. Happy relationship doesn’t come naturally. It requires hard work and effort from two persons to be happy together.

You run after her and pour your heart out on the pavement. You have to tell her all the reasons you love her, and you gotta mean every word of it. You better kiss her like you’ve never kissed her before and hold her in your arms like you’re protecting the world, because she is your world. Fight for her. Don’t let her go. Because once she walks out on you, there will be nothing more you can do. And let me tell you boy, you will regret it.

Yes, there are people who are greater than him/her. There are people who are more attractive, more intelligent, more caring, and more fortunate. That’s life - full of temptations. But don’t be deceived by those things. Because didn’t you ever realize that there are people who are also greater than you? Yet, he/she chose you.

If someone doesn’t want you back, someone else will need you.

If someone thinks you’re boring, someone else will think you’re amazing.

If someone is too busy for you, someone else is willing to make time for you.

If someone ignores you, someone else is willing to pay attention.

If someone doesn’t feel the same way, someone else is waiting for you to feel the same way for them.

You stop the communication. You throw every piece of memory. You delete stupid pictures. You delete every single text. You forget the feeling. It’s not being bitter. It’s just being fair enough to the next person who will try to be the one for you.